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Unleashing the Power of Your 6 Human Needs

 All of us as human beings have different desires, but we are all driven by the same set of needs. Understanding the 6 Human Needs can allow you to turn on your driving force, discover all you’re capable of and become truly fulfilled on a consistent basis.

The Four Classes of Experience

1. We usually think of a Class 1 experience as a “peak life experience.” A Class 1 experience: 

• feels good 

 • is good for you 

 • is good for others 

 • serves the greater good

2. Most people want to avoid Class 2 experiences, but mastering them brings us the most joy, growth and fulfillment. A Class 2 experience: 

 • does not feel good 

 • is good for you 

 • is good for others 

 • serves the greater good

3. Nonproductive Class 3 experiences provide immediate pleasure but eventually destroy our quality of life and give us ultimate pain. Drinking or eating to excess could fit into this category. A Class 3 experience:

• feels good 

 • is not good for you 

 • is not good for others 

 • does not serve the greater good 

4. People often indulge in Class 4 experiences as a result of peer pressure, conditioning or old belief systems. Smoking cigarettes, for example, usually doesn’t feel good the first time, yet many people continue to do it. A Class 4 experience: 

 • does not feel good 

 • is not good for you 

 • is not good for others 

 • does not serve the greater good

The secret to a happy and fulfilled life is learning to convert Class 2 experiences into Class 1—making the process of doing them feel good as well as be good.

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