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How to Win the Game of Life


 Seven Strategies Used by Winners

1. They decide the purpose of the game. 
2. They have fewer rules about how to be happy. 
3. Their rules are consistent. 
4. They give themselves pleasure whenever they win. 
5. They give themselves short bursts of pain if they violate their sense of purpose in life. 
6. They know that everybody has different rules. Their relationships succeed because they try to understand the other person’s rules. 
7. They don’t take life too seriously. 

Lose a Dream and Find Your Destiny
No matter what happens, you must find an empowering meaning. Ask yourself, “How can I use this?” Often in life, when you look back on your worst situations, they turn out to be your best—if you are willing to trust that they happened for a reason. Look for the benefits, and you will find them.

Don’t wait for that glorious moment when you save someone’s life. Start saving a life today by enjoying the one you have. Find your purpose in something simple, like Cecil did: love people, love animals, love beings and make the world a little bit better just by being nice.









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