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Others will believe in you only when you believe in yourself

They will tune on your thought and feel toward you just as you feel toward yourself. You are continuously broadcasting what you think of yourself and if you have no faith in yourself, others will pick up the vibrations of your thoughts and mistake them for their own. Once you understand the law of mental telepathy, you will now why self-confidence is the third of the seventeen laws of success.

You should be cautioned, however, to learn the difference between self-confidence which is based on sound knowledge of what you know and what you can do, and egotism, which is based only on what you wish you knew or could do. Learn the difference between these two terms or you will make yourself boring, ridiculous, and annoying to people of culture and understanding.

Self Confidence is something that should never be proclaimed or announced except through intelligent performance of constructive deeds.

If you have self confidence, those around you will discover this fact. Let them make the discovery. They will feel proud of their alertness in having made the discovery, and you will be free from the suspicion of egotism. Opportunity never stalks the person with a highly developed state of egotism, but brickbats and ugly remarks do. Opportunity forms affinities much more easily and quickly with self-confidence than it does with egotism. Self praise is never a proper measure of self reliance.

Self confidence is the product of knowledge. Know yourself, know how much you know(and how little), why you know it, and how you are going to use it. Four flusher come to grief, therefore, do not pretend to know more than you actually do now. There's no use of pretense, because any educated person will measure you quite accurately after hearing you speak for 3 minutes. What you really are will speak so loudly that what you claim you are will not be heard.

Believe in yourself but do not tell the world what you can do. Show it!

Discontentment
The supreme mystery of the universe is life! We came here without our consent, from whence we know not we go away without our consent, whither we know not.

We are eternally trying to solve this great riddle of life, and for what purpose and to what end? That we are placed on this earth for a definite reason there can be no doubt by any thinker. May it not be possible that the power which placed us here will know what to do with us when we pass on beyon the great divide?

From birth to until death, the mind is always reaching out for what it does not possess.

The little child, playing with its toys on the floor, sees another child with a different toy and immediately tries to lay hands on that toy.

Adults continue to pursue what they perceive as bigger, better, and more toys; the more the better.

A monument to the vanity of man, with but little else to justify its existence.

The grass is always sweeter on the other side of the fence says the jackass, as he stretches his neck in the attempt to get to it.

Let a crowd of boys into an apply orchard and they will pass by the nice mellow apples on the ground. The red, juicy ones hanging dangerously high at the top of the tree look much more tempting, and up the tree they will go.

The married man takes a sheepish glance at the ladies on the street and thinks how fortunate he would be if his wife were as pretty as they perhaps she is much prettier, but he misses that beauty because - well, because "The grass is always sweeter on the other side of the fence."

Happiness is always just around the bend, always in sight but just out of reach. Life is never complete, no matter what we have or how much of it we possess. One thing calls for something else to go with it.

The more we get the more we wanted, and the rule applies to the millionaires as much as it does to someone with only a few thousand dollars.

At every crossroads of life the imps of discontentment stand in the shadows of the background, with a grin of mockery on their faces, crying, "Take the road of your own choice! We will get you in the end!"

Many become disillusioned and begin to learn that happiness and contentment are not in this world.

In the midst of sectarian claims and counter claims, we become undecided Not knowing whether to turn this way or that, we wonder which brand of religion offers the safest passage way, until hope vanishes.

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