1. Get leverage on yourself
To do this, three levels of responsibility are necessary—you must decide the following:
A. Something must change.
B. I must change it.
C. I can change it.
2. Interrupt your current pattern of association
You must scramble the old pattern of thinking and feeling. This is best done by using something unusual, such as making a radical change in what you say or how you move your body.
3. Condition a new empowering association
Install a new choice, and reinforce it until it is conditioned. Any thought, emotion or behavior that is consistently reinforced will become a habit (a conditioned pattern).
Link pleasure to your new choice. Reward yourself emotionally for even small progress, and you will find yourself developing new patterns quickly.
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