People are challenged by receiving for several reasons. First, many people feel unworthy aor undeserving.
Where does this low self esteem come from? The usual conditioning. For most of us it comes from hearing twenty nos for every yes, ten "you're doing it wrongs"s for every "you're doing it right," and five "you're stupid"s for every "you're awesome."
Even if our parents or guardians were incredibly supportive, many of us end up with feelings of not being able to continually measure up to their accolades and expectations. So once again, we're not good enough.
In addition, most of us grew up with the element of punishment in our lives. This unwritten rule simply states that if you do something wrong, you will of should be punished. Some of us were punished by our parents, some by our teachers.. and some of us in certain religious circles were threatened with the mother of all punishments, not getting into heaven.
Your feeling of unworthiness won't prevent you from getting rich; from a strictly financial point of view this could actually be a motivational asset.
Recognize that whether you are worthy or not is all a made-up "story." Again, nothing has meaning except for the meaning we give it.
There's no one who comes around and stamps you "worthy" or "unworthy." you do that. you make it up. you decide it. you and you alone determine if you're going to be worthy. It's simply your perspective. If you say you're worthy, you are. If you say you're not worthy, you're not. Either way you will live into your story.
So why would people do this to themselves? Why would people make up story that they're not worthy? It's just the nature of the human mind, the protective part of us that's always looking for what's wrong.
"If a hundred foot oak tree had the mind of a human, it would only grow to be ten feet tall!"
It would'nt make a difference what anyone says or said in the past, because you have to believe it and buy into it for it to have any effect and that can't come from anyone lse but you.
Here's some sage advice: stop buying into that "worthiness" or "unworthiness" crap and start taking the actions you need to take to get rich!
The second major reason most people have a problem with receiving is that they have bought into the adage "It's better to give than to receive."
Giving and receiving are two sides of the same coin. Whoever decided that it is better to give than to receive was simply bad at math. For every giver there must be a receiver, and for every receiver there must be a giver.
How could you give if there were'nt someone or something there to receive? Both have to be in perfect balance to work one to one, fifty - fifty. And since giving and receiving must always equal each other, they must also be equal an importance.
If you are not willing to receive, then you are "ripping orr" those who want to give to you.
You are actually denying them the joy and pleasure that comes from giving; instead, they feel lousy. Why? Again, everything is energy, and when you want to give but can't, that energy cannot be expressed and gets stuck in you. That "stuck" energy then turns into negative emotions.
To make matters worse, when you are not willing to fully receive, you are training the universe not to give you! It's simple: if you aren't willing to receive your share, it will go to someonee else who is. That's one of the reasons the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Not because they're anymore worthy but because they are willing to receive while most people are not.
If somebody isn't willing to receive his or her share it must go to whoever will. The rain doesn't care who gets it neither does money.
Rich people work hard and believe it's perfectly appropriate to be well rewarded for their efforts and the value they provide for others. Poor people work hard, but due to their feelings of unworthiness, they believe that it is inappropriate for them to be well rewarded for their efforts and the value they provide.
Many poor people actually believe that they are better people because they are poor, somehow they believe they're more pious or spiritual or good. The only thing poor people are, is poor.
Money will only make you more of what you already are. If you're mean, money will make you more of what you already are. If you're mean, money will afford you to be meaner, If you're kind, money will afford you the opportunity to be kinder. And anyone who tells you different is broke!
Once you become truly open to receiving. The rest of your life will open up. Not only will you receive more money, but you'll also receive more lover, more peace, more happiness, and more fulfillment.
How you do anything is how you do everything.
The way you are in one area is usually the way you are in all areas. If you've been blocking yourself from receiving money, chances are you've been blocking yourself from receiving everything else that's good in life.
The mind has a habit of overgeneralizing and says, "The way it is, is the way it is, every where and always."
If you're a poor receiver, you're a poor receiver in all areas. The good news is that when you become an excellent receiver, you'll be an excellent receiver everywhere... And open to receiving all that the universe has to offer in all areas of your life. Now the only thing you'll have to remember is to keep saying "Thank you" as you receive all of your blessings.
Declaration "I am an excellent receiver. I am open and willing to receive massive amounts of money into my life."
Touch your head and say.. "I have a millionaire mind!"
Where does this low self esteem come from? The usual conditioning. For most of us it comes from hearing twenty nos for every yes, ten "you're doing it wrongs"s for every "you're doing it right," and five "you're stupid"s for every "you're awesome."
Even if our parents or guardians were incredibly supportive, many of us end up with feelings of not being able to continually measure up to their accolades and expectations. So once again, we're not good enough.
In addition, most of us grew up with the element of punishment in our lives. This unwritten rule simply states that if you do something wrong, you will of should be punished. Some of us were punished by our parents, some by our teachers.. and some of us in certain religious circles were threatened with the mother of all punishments, not getting into heaven.
Your feeling of unworthiness won't prevent you from getting rich; from a strictly financial point of view this could actually be a motivational asset.
Recognize that whether you are worthy or not is all a made-up "story." Again, nothing has meaning except for the meaning we give it.
There's no one who comes around and stamps you "worthy" or "unworthy." you do that. you make it up. you decide it. you and you alone determine if you're going to be worthy. It's simply your perspective. If you say you're worthy, you are. If you say you're not worthy, you're not. Either way you will live into your story.
So why would people do this to themselves? Why would people make up story that they're not worthy? It's just the nature of the human mind, the protective part of us that's always looking for what's wrong.
"If a hundred foot oak tree had the mind of a human, it would only grow to be ten feet tall!"
It would'nt make a difference what anyone says or said in the past, because you have to believe it and buy into it for it to have any effect and that can't come from anyone lse but you.
Here's some sage advice: stop buying into that "worthiness" or "unworthiness" crap and start taking the actions you need to take to get rich!
The second major reason most people have a problem with receiving is that they have bought into the adage "It's better to give than to receive."
Giving and receiving are two sides of the same coin. Whoever decided that it is better to give than to receive was simply bad at math. For every giver there must be a receiver, and for every receiver there must be a giver.
How could you give if there were'nt someone or something there to receive? Both have to be in perfect balance to work one to one, fifty - fifty. And since giving and receiving must always equal each other, they must also be equal an importance.
If you are not willing to receive, then you are "ripping orr" those who want to give to you.
You are actually denying them the joy and pleasure that comes from giving; instead, they feel lousy. Why? Again, everything is energy, and when you want to give but can't, that energy cannot be expressed and gets stuck in you. That "stuck" energy then turns into negative emotions.
To make matters worse, when you are not willing to fully receive, you are training the universe not to give you! It's simple: if you aren't willing to receive your share, it will go to someonee else who is. That's one of the reasons the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Not because they're anymore worthy but because they are willing to receive while most people are not.
If somebody isn't willing to receive his or her share it must go to whoever will. The rain doesn't care who gets it neither does money.
Rich people work hard and believe it's perfectly appropriate to be well rewarded for their efforts and the value they provide for others. Poor people work hard, but due to their feelings of unworthiness, they believe that it is inappropriate for them to be well rewarded for their efforts and the value they provide.
Many poor people actually believe that they are better people because they are poor, somehow they believe they're more pious or spiritual or good. The only thing poor people are, is poor.
Money will only make you more of what you already are. If you're mean, money will make you more of what you already are. If you're mean, money will afford you to be meaner, If you're kind, money will afford you the opportunity to be kinder. And anyone who tells you different is broke!
Once you become truly open to receiving. The rest of your life will open up. Not only will you receive more money, but you'll also receive more lover, more peace, more happiness, and more fulfillment.
How you do anything is how you do everything.
The way you are in one area is usually the way you are in all areas. If you've been blocking yourself from receiving money, chances are you've been blocking yourself from receiving everything else that's good in life.
The mind has a habit of overgeneralizing and says, "The way it is, is the way it is, every where and always."
If you're a poor receiver, you're a poor receiver in all areas. The good news is that when you become an excellent receiver, you'll be an excellent receiver everywhere... And open to receiving all that the universe has to offer in all areas of your life. Now the only thing you'll have to remember is to keep saying "Thank you" as you receive all of your blessings.
Declaration "I am an excellent receiver. I am open and willing to receive massive amounts of money into my life."
Touch your head and say.. "I have a millionaire mind!"
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